Step number 1

Try best not to explode with anger when your sister can’t do anything right.

“If God blessed you with sons we would not have to break our fingers over wedding dresses.” I say this praying to God asking him why instead of boys they had two, not one but two girls! I fulfilled my purpose in life. I gave birth to two beautiful little boys, they will grow up and inherit all of our family fortune.

Step number 2

Try and keep your opinions to your self, no matter how right you are.

“A young lady should not go with her head uncovered. You’re to old to act like a boy!” I mean come on people when your five its fine but going out into public just makes it not ok! I wear mine my sister wears hers and even Phulan wears her head scarf! And we are not even going out in public!

Step number 3

Try to smile.

“She smiles for the first time in two days.” I smiled trying not to act superior to my sister, no never thats a lie I love to rub it in. So I gave her my best fake smile. I could tell she thought it was real! Darn it!