Q: How do I seem like the smarter person in the situation when someone tells/calls me something not necessarily mean, but something that personally offends me?

A: I’m not quite sure what you mean by seeming like “the smarter person” in this situation. But if someone says something that offended you, even if they didn’t intend to, you should talk to them about it and let them know it offended you. If you’d like you can send me another question and explain what you mean by being the smarter person.

Hope I could help 🙂

RED